If We Choose

Mediation Is The Perfect Path To Peace Between Separating Couples… Many couples choose mediation over going to court because it offers a calmer, more cooperative way to navigate divorce while keeping control in their own hands. Instead of battling in a courtroom, spouses work together to make decisions that fit their family and future. Mediation is especially appealing to couples who want to avoid the stress, expense, and public exposure of litigation. Mediation works best for couples who are ready to approach their divorce with cooperation and focus on the bigger picture. It’s especially effective for: Mediation allows you to stay in control of the process, save time and money, and keep personal matters private. That said, mediation is not for everyone. If either spouse is focused on revenge, “winning,” or manipulating the other, the process is unlikely to succeed. Mediation depends on both parties negotiating in good faith, which means it’s not ideal in situations involving high conflict, abuse, or an unwillingness to share information. If you enter mediation hoping to punish your spouse, you’ll only prolong the process and increase costs.